You are making sense. I know where you’re coming from. Being the friend who is there for everyone is great, but sometimes people take advantage of that without even really knowing they are. Like, of course they love you and want you around but sometimes they forget that you need their time and attention too. And some people are bad at being there for other. It’s not that they don’t care or don’t want to help, they just don’t know how. And sometimes people wait for you to approach them with your problems. Like they want to give you space and make sure you want to talk about what’s bothering you. Everyone wants to feel needed, and to feel like their friends care about them. And sometimes being the person who is always giving is exhausting and you feel like no one is paying attention or giving back. And maybe they aren’t, and they need to be reminded that your problems matter too. But maybe they are or they want to, but they don’t know exactly how.
I hope that made some sense. I’m sorry your feeling this way and I hope it gets better. My ask is always open if you need to vent. You’ll never be a bother
Sometimes friendships fall apart and you feel distant from people who you once felt so close to. Sometimes those friendships rekindle and stay strong but other times they just fizzle out, which is a really shitty thing but people change and move on. Especially about this time during the transition out of high school. And I know it sucks to feel alone right now and maybe slightly abandoned. Maybe your friends will be there for you if you reach out. Or maybe you need time to find new friends or figure out yourself before you start college. Who knows, it’s all chance. But whatever happens, make sure your happy. Don’t just stick with friends who don’t seem to want you around just because they’re your friends. There will always be other people out there who will care about you and want to be friends with you.
I don’t know if I’m any help, but I want you to know that you can talk/vent to me anytime you need to, anon or not
"where do you get so many pictures of dinosaurs skateboarding"
i love laughing about the friend zone because it’s so dumb like you know most of those dudes aren’t even IN the “friend zone” they’re in the “ugh god not this dude again” zone
people say i look different without my glasses but i dont see it
a little girl who grows up thinking all doors are automatic but actually she’s haunted by a really polite ghost
today i sneezed in class and two people said “bless you” i’m getting famous faster than u all think
I will never be happy because I crave attention from people but I also want to be locked up in my room with unlimited food and a comfy bed for the rest of eternity
What do you mean most people leave their rooms before noon
What do you mean most people leave their rooms
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